Friendship relationships are important in the development and strengthening of emotions in children, also at a social and intellectual level. For this reason it is important to teach children to create and strengthen the bond of friendship from childhood.
If your child has difficulty making friends, you can help him develop skills to interact with others appropriately.
How to help children relate to other children?
It is important for parents to talk with their children about how they should integrate with their friends, without having to force them to act against their will.
Children must learn to accept themselves as they are, in order to be able to share with other people without having to change their personality and attitude, in addition to being empathetic to be able to put themselves in the place of others.
- Hold meetings of games at home: The child will feel confident and you can see how he behaves with other children.
- Perform social activities: You can invite the closest friends of your children, to the beach, to the park, to external places where you can leave your comfort zone.
- Avoid pressing it: It is important that you do not pressure the child, to do something he does not want, since only a more closed person will do it.
- Motivate at all times: Must motivate children to perform extracurricular activities, such as some kind of sport or art.
Why does not a child want to interact with his friends?
There can be several reasons in the world of a child that motivates him to want to be alone. But among the most common we can highlight the lack of confidence that he has in himself, he believes that he will not be accepted by his colleagues and for that reason he does not try to talk to them.
In addition, there are children with who have a strong character with their classmates and end up treating them badly, so they are left alone or leave a bad impression on others, and when a child feels that he is not being respected, it is difficult to he relate Easily in the same group, and that's why he prefers to leave.
Add to this the physical, emotional or intellectual conditions, which can make children feel limited or can be judged by a society, without empathy or values.
Parents should give their children a lot of security and confidence so that they can fully share with other classmates. When a child feels good about himself, he can transmit that to the people around him.
Children must have the ability to decide for themselves and not be influenced by anyone, friendship is about accepting others as they are, and share many moments together, some will be happy and others not so much.
It is important that children integrate with each other and can become great friendships, which eventually become a family.
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