Everyone has dreams. Whether the dreams are small or big, they have great value in your life. The attainment of these goals is related to our happiness and well-being. [1] This is a way to increase self-esteem. Trying to achieve your goals makes us a better person. So do not wait anymore whether your goal is to earn money in curds, become an artist, or become a world-class player (athlete). Gather your efforts to achieve your goals from today
01>Method Set goals
01>Make sure you want to: Your first step is to know what you want to get. It can be a small or a big change, but what you expect to get, considering it is the first important step to achieve success.
For example, is your goal to be a more happy person? Do you want to learn to play any musical instruments? Or want to be better in any game? Want to be more healthy? These are all valid (valid) targets. Decide what you want, depending on you
02>Define your rules: Once you understand what you want, then you should begin to think about what these goals mean for you. The definition of goal for a person can be very different from the other person. [2]
For example, if your goal is to be more happy, then you have to think about what happiness means to you. How happy is life? And what things will make you happy?It also applies to less important goals: If your goal is to learn to play guitar, then what exactly does it mean for you? Do you want to learn a bit more guitar so that you can play guitar on a song with friends? Or do you want to play guitar in classical concerts? These are different definitions of knowing how to play guitar.
03>Why ?: Because it is necessary that you take a little time to think about why you are setting the targets selected. If you think about your motivations then it is very likely that you have to re-set your goals.For example, imagine that your goal is to learn to play guitar: stop and think why, and then you realize that those who play guitar are more famous in school. It does not show your devotion to the guitar. It stops you to think again that what is the second and easiest way to get what you want, which is more social than music
04>Determine whether this is possible: The last and most important thing is, determine that your goal is real. As sad as it sounds, every dream can not be true. If your goal is beyond reality then it is time you set another goalImagine that your goal is to become the greatest basketball player in the world. The goal of this goal is challenging for anyone, but for some it can be possible. But, if you are only five feet tall, then this goal can be out of your reach. This goal leads you to failure and despairHowever, you can still enjoy playing basketball with your friends. But, if you want to reach the top spot in any sport, then you have to consider a game where your length is not so important
05>Think deeply by writing: Once you have set a general goal, then you should think in a more specific direction and plan to reach that goal. Writing something in general is a very good first step. Take a paper and write your thoughts on the following topics: [6]
Your ideal future
The qualities that you appreciate in other people
Things that can be done better
Things you want to learn more aboutHabits that you want to improve or improve
The purpose of this step is to help you consider many possibilities in mind. Once these possibilities come off on paper, you can determine what is the most important for you.
06>Think clearly: once you have thought about some goals and thought a little bit, now you should be more clear about them. Use definitions from the notes you write during your thoughts and the earlier part. Write down some specific things that you want to getA vague goal: Like, "I want to play better, so I will do my best," will not be as effective as "I want to learn to play my favorite song in six months". The goals that are not well defined or ambiguous "your best" are not as effective as clear goalsI want to make rich ": Go ahead with the usual and simple goals, and concentrate on such obvious achievements as a result." I want to be rich "instead of" I want to be master in the stock market " Maybe "I want to play guitar" instead of "I want to play guitar in a rock band." Your goal could be
07>>Writing over here is a good tip: try to write your goals in as much detail as possible
08>Consider using the Smart (SMART) method: The Smart (SMART) method is a way to articulate and evaluate your goals. With this method of setting goals, you refine your goals with the following measurements
clear
Measurable
Receivable
Affiliate and
time bound
09>Sort your goals: Many people have many goals. In fact, while writing your thoughts, you may have felt yourself that you too already expect to achieve more than one goal. If so, then it is good that you sort them according to their importance.
Sorting will help you focus on the most meaningful goals for yourselfFor example, you want to do a PhD in astrophysics, want to learn to play classic guitar, want to read the entire article written by Tolstoy, and want to run in a marathon. It is a bit unrealistic to get all these things together. Deciding which goal is most important to you, gives you the chance that you can employ them as long-term and short-term goals.Measuring the level of your commitment towards every goal is part of this process. A difficult or long-term goal with which you are not committed to a higher level, it is difficult for you to achieve such a goal. [9] If you are not serious enough to do a PhD in astrophysics, then you probably do not have the priorities of life Should make
10>Imagine the effects on your future: Take a little time to think about what each of these goals will have on your life. This will help in determining the benefits of attempts to achieve every goal.Thinking in this way will help you visualize the process of attempts to achieve these goals. This can help you to be more motivated towards the goal
11>Divide your goal into smaller goals: Most goals can be found easily by dividing them into smaller goals. These small tasks are sub-targets - small goals that connect and create the main goals that you want to getFor example, if you want to learn to play guitar, then your first sub-goal can be guitar. The next learning class may have to enter. Next, you will want to learn the most basic courses and scales, and it will keep going in sequenceCreating a sequential list of these sub-goals will help you focus in the right direction. In the above example, you can make your goal to raise enough money to buy a guitar in the next three months. A week after that you can plan to take admission in training, learn the early courses in the next two months, and keep moving forward in this sequence.
12>Make it a regular rule: making regular rules will help you take the time. Set one time daily to get your goalFor example, you can take half an hour from 6:30 to practice music scales. You can apply to practice the next half-hour cords. Then in the next 15 minutes, you can practice playing a special song of a song. If you do this everyday (or even after leaving one day), then you can learn to play any instrument very soon.
advice
Believe in yourself.
Speak truth with yourself Taking the goal by doing things that you are not proud of, achieving the goal will not be as enjoyable.
Lao-Ze did not forget these words: "The journey of thousands of miles begins with the first step.
Put it on black. Writing helps to reinforce ideas. Those who see your thoughts are the only ones, but writing your goals emphasizes the motive of achieving your goal.Those other targets, even if they are not like you, can also be a big support for you. Talk to them everyday If none is available individually, try an online community where people set goals and make one another accountable.