Dear Friend Steemian...!!!!
Once, in a beautiful padepokan, the Master was looking down at the orchid flower trees that were arranged artistically, well-groomed and blooming beautifully.
One day when he was about to travel, he told his students, "My son, your teacher will go to visit the teacher's grandfather and other colleagues, keep studying and practicing, and be careful to take care of your favorite orchid crop."
The disciple who received the message carefully took care of the orchid trees. However, one day, while tidying and flowering the orchids, he accidentally nudged the shelves of the tree. Prang! A loud noise accompanied the falling pots of orchids that broke apart and the orchid plants were scattered around it.
The student with a sense of panic and fear trying to fix as much as he could. But what power, only a few are saved. With a sense of anxiety, he was waiting for his teacher to come home to apologize and ready to accept any punishment that will be given later.
After the Master came home and heard the news, he called his disciples. "Master, Master, I admit that I was wrong to disappoint and damage Master's favorite orchid, I am ready to accept the punishment ..." interrupted the disciple regretfully.
With a wise smile the Master said, "My pupil.It is an orchid flower is your Teacher's favorite flower, then Master takes good care of it so it blooms beautifully.You need to know, Your Gur grows orchids, the main reason is to enjoy the beautiful colors of the flowers orchids as well as to beautify the environment around here, not for the sake of anger Master planted this orchid tree.
Despite liking orchids but Master is not tied to the flowers, therefore Master does not need to be angry because of orchids. But next time doing anything should be more careful. Orchid flowers can be planted again, but caution is an attitude that must always be wary of because it can have negative consequences and harm to anyone. "
We can learn from here. If anger is in control of us, try pausing and thinking, "Not for the sake of being friends," "Not for the sake of being husband and wife," and "Not for the sake of anger giving birth and raising children."
Thus, the attitude of tolerance will emerge. Anger will melt and peace will accompany our hearts. When we are about to quarrel with friends, house people, or family, it should be remembered, the encounter that has taken place, not for the sake of anger, but deserves to be grateful.
patience is a mirror of one's wisdom in the face of every problem. positive thinking and control of anger, will give peace and peace of mind ..
