One day, I arrived a friend of his village and his wife. Both are physically handicapped deaf. With 'makeshift and wholesome' communication, I got the information that they earn from selling chicken porridge in the school cafeteria where their children go to school. Several times home visits, I know, how difficult life they have to go through.
With the consent of our husbands, we decided within a year, and it continues into the following years, to help them continuously a 50 kg bag of rice every month, in addition to selling porridge, as well as for eating them. When the supply of rice is thinning, they send messages via sms to my cell phone.
When a brother needs help because his business is being affected by a competitor, after getting the approval from the husband, we also disburse funds to help. And this is not for the first time.
When a friend or relative or employee is in trouble, they come to us and ask for help because they think we are kind, capable, wise, and reliable people to get help.
While there is a theory that states, it is better to be above hand, much more helpful than asking for help. Really! Not one bit!
But the truth is, to be honest, as a normal human being who often faces such an affair, the most thrilling moment is the inner struggle in the crucial seconds of having to decide: should I help this man? Need help? Do-not, with our help will even damage their mental? Do not let his intention to help even harm people, must regret in the future.
When the intention of giving help has been decided, after careful thought of the various angles, reach out with a happy feeling. Highly with prayer, may be beneficial to all parties.
Do not mess up the good deeds that we have done by issuing harsh words even then overwhelmed with hatred if it turns out the help we provide does not match the beautiful reality we want. The term I often use, if you want to help people, close your eyes, close your ears, shut up, open your heart !.
CONTEMPTION: In the story of helping humanity, there is a beautiful word we need to look at: SIGN! Sincere is a neutral giver because, a sincere person never regrets in doing good! And good works always aim to bring happiness!