🦋 Our partners, and all of our encounters actually, are the reflection of what is going on in our vibrational field.
Who we are is shown in our outer world,
in every experience, interaction, and effort.
The more we dedicate ourselves to the shadow work the less we project our wounds. Our vision is clearing as we are realizing that we see others as we are.
If our ego is what drives us we will mostly look for conflicts, we will judge and reject everything we are suppressing in ourselves. This is a simple mechanism of our ego to create the illusion of self-worth while we don't feel worthy at all.
We are raised and programmed to be very critical of ourselves and others. There is no place for mistakes, no patience for the time needed, and no acceptance of the expression. While looking through the eyes of the ego we slowly depart one from another.
Divided we are falling.
🦋 To experience beautiful soulful connections we need to look at everyone with the eyes of our Innerbeing.
Our Soul never judges, never differentiates.
Our Soul just loves.
And she is guiding us to feel the same.
Love purifies our thoughts, deeds, and intentions.
When we look at others in this pure loving way we begin to see ourselves as such.
We enhance our compassion, empathy, patience and the connections we make will be more profound and significant.
If we can create such a space of acceptance and innerstanding in our romantic relationship we create a safe space where we can be fully ourselves and where we can consciously let our shadows emerge and heal the traumas.
As we heal, the mirror we are looking into begins to reflect more beauty back to us.
~Nika 🦋