There is no such thing as 'the one'. You'll always have to put up with the good and the bad of a person. In the same way as you expect your partner to put up with your strengths and flaws, you need to put up with the lacks in your partner.
Concentrate on the good of you partner, and forgive them their flaws. If anything, its better to fix your own flaws before complaining about those in your partner.
RE: Finding a Partner (Wife) is Hard