Oracle Cards
You want freedom. You want a new beginning. But, you are loyal. You want community. There is an obstacle in your path. What is it? Something needs to end.
The Drawing shows 2 people stuck together fighting with an Angel standing guard. Both people are looking at us, not at each other, or at the Angel. They are pushing each other away while being totally intertwined with each other. They could both just get up and walk away, but they don’t. They just keep fighting. It does not have to be this way – God is right there. They could turn to God and ask for help. They could turn to God and pray. One of them could turn to God and ask for help or pray for them both or for each other without the other one, but neither is willing to “give in”. And yet, you are sick of it and want your freedom. You want a new beginning. But you are loyal to what you have. And you will miss it – that is the obstacle – the ending.
But it’s not that simple the way you think – In fact, you have your freedom right now IN this situation and you are choosing to fight. You fantasize about having your freedom means that you walk away and start something new with someone else- but if you don’t finish what you are doing here, you will just repeat it with the next person. You are the one fighting. It takes 2 to fight. You really must make the change you want in what you have in oder for real change to take place.
The Golden Rule: Treat others how you want to be treated. That’s it. If you will do that, your life will be a dream – but you don’t. Why? Petty bullshit. An unquiet mind. Past harms you have caused others that you have not amended. The obstacle could simply be your behavior which needs to end in order to create a new beginning right there with the one your with… all people are the same – really – all we need is one who agrees to walk the path with us.
Then when we have that person, we need to treat them with love and tolerance, kindness, patience, and love, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. And when we fuck up and step on their toe – and are mean – we have to say we are sorry. We have to communicate about everything that is bothering us – not as a “you need to change” statement, but as a “this is what’s going on with me” statement.
Once you let these principles go – it’s very hard to get them back – but it is not impossible. You can do it. It requires discipline and willingness. You also have to admit where you are wrong. You can’t go on automatic defensive pilot – and just be mean or defend. You have to let your guard down and be vulnerable. You have to own your part and not stir the pot just for fun. You have to think about every word that comes out of your mouth and you have to be ready to say your sorry at any moment.
Starting something new when you have not done these things in an unfinished relationship will only bring you heart ache when the honeymoon period wears off and your new one looks like your old one.
So either the 2 of you need to end this thing, or you can take the greater challenge and use the freedom that you have to make a free will choice to change your behavior in this situation even if the other person does not. You can lead, by example, them into a new way of interacting. You can be loyal – and you can have your family with your familiar. And you can turn your obstacle into an ending of the old way and a beginning of something new.
Yes, there may be Shadow Work you need to do, but more likely it is just give up your distractions. Stop being on your phone all the time. Get off social media. Pay attention. Think about “Pay Attention” - that’s currency. We actually spend time – that’s also currency – Pay and Spend – but yet we would rather pay money to buy useless cheap crap to distract ourselves than to Pay with our attention and spend our time with the person we said we love.
Bring God into it and you are guaranteed miracles -
Direction for Meditation and Prayer
The solution is that you let God be the Director of your life, then things will go much better for you, because you will always know what to do when you have a situation and come to an obstacle because you will be guided by a Power greater than you that has your best interest in mind for the Highest Good of all concerned.
A good place to start would be MEDITATION and PRAYER. Start with a few minutes of silent meditation in the morning and at night - and increase it as you can. You can count backward from 25 and try to see the numbers in your head- this will block other thoughts from coming in. The purpose of meditation is to get out of the ego self and into the observer self so that you are no longer attached to ideas that you believe are real...
and you can get into the silence - this does take practice. Yoga can help with this as well. Breathing into your stuck points in your body while doing a stretch can help you find mental silence.
Prayer on the other hand is for throughout the day - and it requires practice to become a working part of your life - Asking at each point when you set out to do something - what is God's Will in this situation? Pausing and waiting and then looking for the answer in signs or intuition, chance meetings or things that come from outside you to start with ... You can do this with minutia as well as big decisions. Practice at the grocery store when standing in front of the bread isle - there are so many choices - God, what kind of bread should I buy? and then
pause and wait to see which bread seems right. It takes practice. The finite mind is not going to want to give up it's status as the ruler - so it might be confusing and frustrating but the more you practice the more it will become a working part of the mind...
Even making mistakes shows you are trying and you will get great rewards from that -
Acknowledging these miracles - by writing them down - makes them more and more believable - not something to be brushed off as "coincidence" - or not even noticed -
In addition, during this "crisis" we are in - you could Pray for a simple way you could be helpful to others - and for the ability to let go of the results - you do not know what is best for others - but you can be helpful to them in some way -
This will get you out of yourself and let the Higher Power have a chance to work out the right decision for you - so that you will know what to do when you need to know it...
Try this for a while anonymously – don’t let your partner know what you are doing and see how the relationship changes, miraculously.
I also suggest repeating this treatment every day until your heart fills up.
Divine Love Treatment by Emmet Fox
MY SOUL is filled with Divine Love. I am surrounded by Divine Love. I radiate Love and Peaceto the whole world. I have
conscious Divine Love. God is Love, and there is nothing in existence but God and His Self-expression. All people are expressions of Divine Love; therefore, I can meet
with nothing but the expressions of Divine Love. Nothing ever takes place but the Self-expressing of Divine Love.
All this is true now. This is the actual case, the actual state of affairs. I do not have to try to bring this about, but I observe it already in being now. Divine Love is the actual nature of Being. There is only Divine Love, and I know this.
I perfectly understand what Divine Love is. I have conscious realization of Divine Love. The Love of God burns in me for all humanity. I am a lamp of God, radiating Divine Love to all whom I
meet, to all whom I think of.
I forgive everything that can possibly need forgiveness—positively everything. Divine Love fills my heart, and all is well. I now radiate Love to the whole universe, excluding no one. I experience Divine Love. I demonstrate Divine Love.
I thank God for this.
Talisman: “Divine Love fills my heart, and all is well.“