In a conversation between unschooler parents in conflict with their emotions, I came to this insight, that I truly want to share with you. These parents where talking about how they wanted to change themselves by controling there emotions! ...this is my insight...
There is a lot of agression in communication between people. It's not easy to stay food on what's important for you. As a mother from young adult kids, you probably going to experience moments that are heated by emotions between you and your younger version. Speaking there mind is very brave but as a parent you better don't take those things personall. If you can take distance, you can make communication much easier and objective. Sometimes I use emotions by purpose because I see that my surroundings don't understand another language on that moment.
I always studied emotions and feelings (flower coach) and no feeling is better or worse than another! Everything is available and everything can “be” whenever we like. Accepting ourselves is in my thinking unschooling our hearts, and learns our children that we are human and still learn and go forward.... There is no perfect world... If we show our children how to accept who we are, in every moment and also make everything possible to talk about, why we want to be someone else???
Forcing ourselves in something we still aren’t doesn’t look to me as a better “unschooling parent”... Being safe in the world means also that a kid can experience their parents has flows: mad if they are hurt, yelling when they are anxious, frustrated when they are stressed! If you show your children how to deal with emotions, how to handle them, how to react in the moment of the emotion, don’t you think that’s even more valuable than forcing yourself to do better???
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