5 ATTITUDES THAT CHEAPEN YOU

In this 21st century, people are giving a lot attention to their physical attributes in attempt to increase their worth in peoples eyes. They do this forgetting that when it comes to a persons worth, attitudes and attribute goes hand in hand.

HERE ARE 5 ATTITUDES THAT REDUCES YOUR WORTH

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1. COMPLAINING

Constant complaining about how things are tough, how life is so cruel, how you are sad and so on is one thing that reduces your value among people you expect respect from. The bitter truth is that you may have really amazing friends who seem to be there always and make out time to listen to you, but with time they will definitely get fed up with your incessant complains. Remember, complaining never solves anything and everyone has their own problems too.

2. BEGGING

Another thing that reduces your worth and respect among your peers is being known as a beggar. One of the things you will notice if you are guilty this is that will people get uncomfortable when ever you are around and will start avoiding you. Asking for help when you need it is not a problem but the problem starts when you overdo it. People will be more moved to help you when ask for help and they know that's something you rarely do, hence they know the situation is important. You should try to give too and not be a burden to people.

3. LYING

To be known for lying is that worst than being known for begging. If your words has no worth, you have no worth. Stop making promises you can't keep. Its better to tell people you can't do it or you don't want to do it than increase their hopes and disappoint them last minute. Lying cheapens a person so much that even at the point he's telling the truth, no one will believe him. If you have nothing, having people believe in your word is worth much cause even at all odds, people will still give you a benefits of the doubt.

4. NO STANDARDS

People will easily toil with you if you have no boundaries, no-go areas and no standards. Its actually true that in life, people will do anything as long as the price is right but you shouldn't make this too obvious. To be valued and respected, you should have principles, values, and these will be the standard of your worth. Even if no one is looking, there are certain things you must not do... It's called integrity. Don't show you can easily be bought with money and be loyal to people that are loyal to you.

5. TALKATIVE

Talkative is a person that tends to talk too much especially out of proportion. It's often said that action speaks louder than words. Too much talking reduces your worth because you put out everything about you out there for everyone to see. Everyone knows and can evaluate your worth. You have to privacy, nothing to hide and there is nothing more to you when you talk too much. People can't entrust anything to you, not even minor secrets when you talk too much. Know when to be silent as this makes you appear more mysterious and more powerful. If you seldom talk, people will listen to what you want to say when you talk.