There is a common saying that whatever you sow that is what you shall reap, you cannot sow rice and expect reap yam or you sow cocoa-yam and expect to reap cassava. Its exactly what you sow that you will reap.
Some people actually believethat love will find them when they dont have any trace of love in them, unfortunately for them they always get disappointed and the most interesting thing is that they still dont know why it happened the way it happened.
Friends what ever you sow in the life of others is what you are likely to get. I often ask some girls jokingly, what kind of a man they want to have as a husband and they go like, tall, handsome, loving, caring and all what nots but ask again if they have the same to give back, you find out its not the same thing.
Well I have a message for everyone that its what you give that you will get hence ONLY BY LOVING THAT YOU BECOME FIT TO BE LOVED.