when you have no more desire or attraction to something that you were in need to have and you feel like nothing pushes you to keep on wanting or dreaming about the things that you want, that feeling that you get is called ''satisfaction''. Its is a special and concept which has a complex meaning, because it differs from one to another in terms of conception and degree of feeling.
In this article, we will try to shed the light on three approaches of satisfaction:
THE FIRST ONE :
You have your dreams and goals in life that you want to achieve and try very hard to realize a huge part of it, because for you that is what is called success. That is to say, as long as you achieve some goals that you set after you finish the process of working on them, you get the feeling that you are no more hungry and you do not need to keep on thinking about them.
This represents satisfaction for you, and if we want to describe it more and generalize it somehow, let's say that you first set your goals, after that you begin the process of making your dreams come true, then you realize them one by one.
So, after following this principle you realize your own satisfaction.
THE SECOND ONE :
Sometimes, it is not that important to think about what you need or aim for your personal desires and work on achieving your own goals, because you are more concerned about people's attention and want to do all what is possible for you to make them have a good impression on you despite of your own believes and desires. Thus, feeling satisfied for this category of people means following others' requirements that make you a better person in their eyes and give you more trust and faith in yourself.
Indeed, some of us could consider this as a lack of self-confidence, because they do not give much interest to their own feelings and desires. Although, for them, satisfying other peoples' preferences leads or equals their own satisfaction.
So, this kind of satisfaction is still logical and rational in their eyes.
THE THIRD ONE :
As we have mentioned before satisfaction is relative, so, it does not matter if you do a lot of effort for the sake of your satisfaction or not doing much for that. For more clarification, as long as you are satisfied with your actual achievements in life, regardless of their wight or quality, you have reached the degree of satisfaction that you need as you like.
So, one could control his desires anytime and make himself believe that he does not need any more achievements to be considered as satisfied, which means that satisfaction is a feeling that can be manipulated by the one who feel it as he likes in one condition that he has to persuade himself that satisfaction is relative to his own judgement.
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