<--"AND this is just an opportunity to become more self-aware and emotionally strong. Use your opportunity." That's such a beautiful and perfect summary to all of this!
I had to learn to have boundaries. You're so right about valuing yourself. I thought I did...but still had some boundary work to do.
Good for you for passing this knowledge on to others.
RE: Are boys really assholes, or is it that girls don't listen?