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Today resentment is a common thing, nowadays people get angry in small things, when someone says something, people start getting angry. There are many people who are not happy with anyone, they keep getting angry on everything. If seen, displeasure is another form of anger, just in anger we show our reaction directly to the person, but in displeasure we keep on tolerating things silently and doing overthinking about the issue.
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In fact, the root cause of displeasure is expectation. When we expect too much from someone, we start thinking that he will do the same, but if that person does not stand up to our expectations, then we get angry. If we don't expect anything from anyone, then there will be no resentment. If I am expecting someone that that person will do this but he does not do so, then the displeasure starts from here, then displeasure slowly starts breaking the relationship and in the end, many relationships end because of this. But really, whose fault is it?
If seen, the fault is ours only, we keep our hopes due to which we face problems later and we incur resentment. People keep many expectations from themselves and are unable to live up to those expectations, then why do they expect others to do the things that meets our expectations? I think that a person should not keep any type expectation from anyone because we are expecting from someone on whom we have no control and in the end we have to suffer, we have to get angry and upset, whose no point at all.
If we build a relationship without expecting from anyone, then better relationships are formed than expectating to someone.
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If I am befriending someone, if I have a preconceived expectation that he will do this for me, I will say this, this will happen, that will happen and the end ,If this does not happen then I will suffer and there is no fault of the person in front of me because I did what was expected and not what he said.
So that's why I feel that relationships should be maintained without expecting anything, this will not only makes the relationship last longer, but we don't also have to suffer and we maintain relationships happily.
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