So many times I have seen a lot of persons giving up on life just because they were rejected. Of a truth, being rejected hurts so much but have we really taken out time to see rejection as a positive factor?
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Apparently the first thing about rejection that comes to everyone's mind is a negation or a negativity and it so sad to know that a lot of us barely know the strength of this word rejection.
I feel rejection is and should be seen as a positive factor even though it comes with a lot of pain and heartache. I have always believed that the utmost strength of a man is achieved when rejection is involved because there is this spark that tends to make us even better when we know we should have or maybe we could have but we didn't. That spark is the positive factor I am talking about.
I know how difficult rejection can be and the pain one passes through after being rejected because I have been rejected countless times. I can imagine the pain a person who gave all of his time, efforts, and every ounce of his energy in for a certain thing will be feeling after he ends up being rejected. I can imagine the mental state of a person who took efforts to make someone happy, to be friends with them and they, by their acts, makes this person feel unwanted. I can imagine a person in an office or in a relationship who is made to feel that he is not a part of it. He is there but he isn't. He was almost there but he was never there. And even worse is our efforts not being appreciated. Trust me, these feelings are very painful and these things break a person into pieces.
So yes, I know how painful rejection can be but admist all these rejections, the person who takes this as a challenge and proves his worth is the real winner. This is because this person didn't give up and even with the pain and heartache that comes with being rejected, he still had that drop of energy to overcome everything and get back at life. He is the real winner and this is the positive factor of rejection we should all embrace.
Obviously you cannot be everything to everyone and not everyone will feel the same way you feel for them or consider you as important as you consider them. Just know that you did your bit and made the effort. You may not necessarily get what you want but at least have the satisfaction of doing your bit. Get back at life as those efforts which you took will only be fruitful if you don't give up because you were rejected.
Always know your worth and never feel bad when you are rejected since being rejected is meant to be a spark to greater things. Know that anything that can not kill should be able to make you stronger. Rejection can not kill you, all you need to do is to let it make you stronger.
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