Hello Hive Communities, How are you doing today? I hope and pray everyone is in a good health.
Let me share to you a letter to end your relationship. Hahaha.
I heard from friends how they end their relationships quite bothering me they say bad things about her/him. I wrote a letter as example. When ending a relationship we always put the blame to our partner we don't accept the mistake we did. I just thought writing a letter is a formal way to end a relationship with a good manner and respect to the old lover.
Dear ________
The time has come for me to say goodbye to you.
You have been a lovely woman/man and good companion; you were present in my life for ____ years & __ months. I am grateful and thankful for your life. You taught me many things. I grew in many ways. I learned to do new things because you motivated me. I knew you love me for years. We admit it or not we both changed the way we communicate to each other. We stop sharing things we like to do or we want to do together. You were preoccupied with your own life. "Sometimes I felt I am no longer part of it. It is painful."
I Know I hurt you and your feelings for years. Please accept my apology? I should have done better. Maybe you got tired of understanding my attitude towards you. You believe it or not you no longer happy with me if you are, you will not hesitate to keep talking to me or to initiative to communicate. ***I am the one to blame if I did not push you too hard maybe you will not ignore me. I knew you always say that you do not ignore me because you are too nice to me. ***
However, I was denial for years about dreaming and hoping you will make time for me. I always begged for your time and attention. Maybe I just don't understand your work load or profession.
I always asked myself if you are still in love with me or not. I do still believe you are. I appreciated it; you never cheated because you were loyal and honest to me.
However, I now realized that our relationship is no longer serves us. *I am ready to move on from this relationship. *
Therefore, for me to move on and cut my attachment and feelings for you not to be shaken, confused and lingered around me. I want my mind to be clear from doubts, and my heart to be free from negative emotions regarding this change. I may ask that both of us to be strong and healthy, as we undergo this shift.
Truly, it has been a wonderful journey with you _____. I am now signing off as your ________, freeing you, and I am not closing you for friendship. I hope I will not regret to send you off. I wish nothing but the best and happiness ahead of you.
Thank you. Farewell.
With Love & Gratitude,
XY
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