Growing up, i have always had this phobia for uncertain decisions or response to a particular situation or experience. One major reason is because i get scare being blamed for making a bad decision or what people and friends will say about me.
Life have taught me a lot about doubting a decision or unsettling for a change. I feel this is one face a young person will have to go through in other to be bale to stand up for his or her self. I understood life that there is nobody prefect and no one makes the best decision everyone are just trying their best to make sure things work out in the way they imagined it. Making decision can be a heavy burden because a lot of people fear changes because of uncertainty and this can draw a person back from embracing new opportunities that can be life transforming.
Everyone has the natural ability to predict how a particular situation will go but people draw back from this because of uncertainty and fear of negative outcomes. Gambling made me understand this act of taking risk, i remember how we imagine of becoming rich through gambling, i and few of my friends draw back because we were uncertain of seeing a future in it, but there was one of my friend that saw his vision on it and continued and now this my friend is extremely rich from gambling, many of us lost this opportunity because we were uncertain of seeing a future in this.
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Presently, when i find myself in a situation that i know little about and i need to make a decision toward it.
Research the unknown; I will ask questions from seniors or online about this particular phenomena so i don't make single decision. Sharing of knowledge and experience is really important and helpful.
Empower the Mind; Most times listening to music at the moment can help me make a decision or stand for the decision I make. I also empower my thoughts and mind through motivations that encourages taking big risk to earn massively. This motivational quotes has really helped me make the right decisions toward several things. We all have specific things that help us to empower our minds, i will encourage everyone to focus on themselves and understand the mind is a very powerful tool of the body that shouldn't be joked with.
Just do It: Fear is just a mindset the brain respond to the unknow, i have grew to understand that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger so i just do that thing even though i don't know it because i know for sure that later someone will always put me through it and explain to my understanding. There are many stages in life and no mater how bad the stage maybe there will always be someone there to advice us and if we fail to adhere, we might be lost in it.
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