Are you asking in this post? Or are you just wanting us to listen? I myself, just want people to listen - unless I ask for advice. I have personally found that People need other people to listen - and that is all. People will figure out their own answers as a result of sharing and being heard. Especially these days - it seems like advice giving is on the increase. My spiritual advisor says the worst "vice" is ad-vice.
RE: The Confusion Of Modern Empathy