Take note of the points below and dont hesitate to quit and break the courtship if u notice any of the point:
- If you notice that he/she is manipulating and always want to manipulate you into doing what he/she wants.
- If you notice that there is or might be an addiction. I plead with you, break it off don't set yourself up for a lifetime of heartache.
- If you notice that he/she get aggressive easily and can't control their emotions.
- If he/she is very jealous don't want you to speak to other people, start accusing you of things, etc.
- He/she not making you a priority. If this happens so early on in the beginning of a relationship where it should be all moonshine and roses, then you will be grossly neglected later on in a relationship.
- A meanness towards old people, children and animals.
If any of the above signs are there, break off the friendship, as said above, if you continue this and you go over into a
long-term relationship and/or marriage your life will be full of problems and heartache. Value yourself enough to spare you this, there are lots of people who are looking for a life-partner, you will find another candidate.
If you identify any of the above warning signs in your life, don't consider to be in a relationship for now. We live in a wonderful world full of technology and help is available everywhere. Even if you can't afford professional help, you can browse on the internet for self-help courses for your problem. See a pastor or a social worker, but please reach out, you are also worth it, to be a better version of you. You also deserve more than having these problems and continue to destroy your life. You can do it, anyone can get help and change, but the change always starts with you. Once you have sorted out the problems you can start to look for a life-partner again, knowing that you will be the best you can be and it is in your ability to make yourself and your partner happy.
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