The moment I came across to this question, I get into a flashback to a conversation happened with my first Girl friend. She once said to me, "no days are bad and good, it is upto us to make everyday beautiful" It was this maturity that pulled me to her.
Anyhow, it was something from past and now we all are living in our own life. But taking a leaf out of that conversation, I definitely like to make contribution to this week @ecotrain Question of the week
I was born and broght up in a middle class family. Taking an example from own life, where I missed out on childhood luxuries, higher education from reputed college. I would say life is unfair. Then, I started earning, reach to a management position of an esteemed organization, the leaving my job for dads bad health and now with no source of income. There is every reason to say Life is unfair to me.
Not only me most of us would say that life is not fair to them. We have our own set of grouses against people, events, occurrences and circumstances that happen in our life. Its human tendency that we inquistivelly get into a comparison mode with others. And then we start to say , life is not fair
While some might call it fate, others believe in past life karma, luck or chance. For the universe to run smoothly, events and occurrences have to be in a certain way. Life doesn't moves in a straight line, but it revolves in in infinite cycles. This much we know by looking at life, where rich and poor, good and bad, happiness and sorrow, life and death - all come in cycles. Life may seem unfair, if things changed as per every individual's desires and wishes, imagine the chaos and confusion that would result.
The thought of unfairness comes to an individual, the moment he/she start to compare their existence with others. It is our nature to compare and compete, and feel dejected especially when we see others having more money, luxurious lifestyle , better relationships or good health. Consciously or subconsciously, we often wish that something bad happens to them, because it seems unfair that others should be having an apparently better life than us.
No one really knows for sure how human existence works, why life unfolds for each of us the way it does. Despite many of us living good, honest lives, our existence does not seem to shower its blessings on us. It is then that we wonder if life is unfair. In reality, life is neither fair nor unfair. Our life flows as it is meant to. There is no master blueprint which dictates how life should proceed every second on earth for each of us?
Life is canvas, where we paint it like we want. The only key, for a good life is to accept it the way it comes to you, grab the opportunity and encash all the benefits. Make your life a joyful ride. Do what you want to do or to achieve, what makes you happy. This way, we hardly regret our existence and hence the question of life being fair or unfair never exists. Every Life has some purpose finding that and mo ing to attain is the motto, that will simply give life a meaning ful direction.