The third side

To me, there are always three sides to every story. Sometimes, two sides might not be enough, especially when it involves two or more people. I know that we hide the real reason that leads to an argument or the real reason that leads to something, and we only tell the story people want to hear.

Almost everyone tends to tell stories that portray them in a positive light. It's rare for someone to speak negatively about themselves while narrating a story. This is because people tend to avoid coming across as flawed or guilty in front of their audience.

Hearing different people's side of the story can often lead to a clearer understanding of the situation. Each person may bring to light a certain aspect of the situation but it's important to note that even after hearing multiple sides of the story, the truth behind what happened may remain unclear.

Sometimes people hide crucial information in a story to present a better image to the judge because this might also reveal their weaknesses and vulnerabilities. On the other hand, some people do not hide this important fact simply but it involves emotions and It can be difficult to describe, Even after attempting to explain it thoroughly to someone else, they may not fully comprehend why it occurred in the first place.

believe what happens between two people always stays with them, and no matter the explanation they try to give a third party or a judge there will still be some missing links, That is why even after hearing the truth about an argument, there is always another side to this story, and that side is a third side in which only the owners of the story fully understood.

This happens most times among very complex relationships, and that's why you see when those complex relationships reconcile. The third party that knows 70% of the story becomes confused about how they can come back together. It is because the remaining side of the story only occurs to the owners of this story, and most people don't always understand.