Hello, dear Steemians!
Confidence is that positive energy which comes to your rescue when everything goes wrong and helps you stand on your feet in moments that you are completely blank as to how you should overcome your challenges.
But boosting your self-confidence is a delicate matter which requires a lot of attention. Self-confidence is not achieved through the power of suggestion; where the subjects constantly tell themselves that they are capable of doing something, while all the logical assessments of their capabilities prove otherwise.
This is not to say that the power of beliefs doesn’t have a role to play in the quality of your performance, but it should be noted that self-confidence is a whole different matter and should be thus treated as such.
The first step towards boosting your self-confidence in a logical manner is to garner the attention of the people you interact with. Family members, friends, colleagues and employers are all susceptible to our aura of self-confidence and how we approach and react to their words and actions determines the impression we leave on their minds.
And if you want to leave a truly mesmerizing impression, you need to work on your body language. Your body language and gestures are of the utmost importance when you are interacting with other people.
Sometimes you take a look at a person’s face and realize that they don’t even acknowledge themselves as someone who is worthy of respect!
This is probably the most problematic aspect of your relationships and how well you handle them based on your self-confidence. If you do not have the attention and respect of those you interact with, you cannot hope to exploit your self-confidence and improve your chances of success.
In the coming days and weeks, I am going to write a series of articles about body language and gestures, but for now, I will leave you with several tips that can help you in this matter.
When you meet someone, shake their hands with strength and show them a powerful grip. This is the first sign that they are dealing with someone who they should take seriously. Whenever you talk to someone, keep your head up at all times and look at their face with determination and resolve.
Never get lost in your own thoughts when you are talking with someone, as it shows a lack of self-esteem and concentration.
Moving away from body language, we come to another aspect of self-image that can improve your confidence.
Always dress well and be mindful of your appearance! What you wear may not be the best determination of who you are and how you think about the world, but people have this cognitive error that puts them in a place of judgement regarding how well you appear and take care of your image.
Besides, making sure that you look good is also a sign of your determination. If you wear good clothes and appear splendidly in front of someone that you are expecting to work with, that person will appreciate the respect that you have for him and gives back that respect.
This will ultimately prove to boost your self-confidence.
Positive energy brings forth positive results. Always try to see the silver lining in everything and always smile, even if you are not feeling fine.
Be grateful of the things you have and the opportunities that life has given you.
Every moment is an opportunity, and every opportunity is a blessing. It is only a matter of your perspective. The fact that you are here reading this blog could be a sign that you need to change something in order to realize your dreams and become who you were meant to be.
It might be difficult to make a habit out of the things we discussed in this article. But by taking on the endeavor, you will eventually boost your self-confidence and earn the respect of the people around you.
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50, 80 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
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