I think it's important to uphold peace in situations like this. I'm sorry about your dad, i hope you still have many good days ahead of you.
However it may be what we think doesn't change the color of the sky nor the seasons, but they influence what we say and our actions! And that can change everything...so I choose to say:
May your perceptions keep adding to your life success and abundance!
RE: This is the construct of your reality!