Deep and wise as usual. :)
When we take our negativity bias into account, we are more likely to realize that our thinking is part of making things look bad/worse. It is also being fed by social conditioning and negative experiences. We interpret the other person behaviors/ speech according to our experiences not to his. This is why seeking to fully understand him is a key point in developing a healthy relationship.
RE: Reflections On Loving -Part 12: Assume The Best Of Each Other