Hello, Steemians!
In our overwhelmingly crowded and mediocre society, it has grown to become a tendency of young people to seek the approval of other people and meet their standards, going so far as to compare their capabilities and achievements to them, thus falling into a crisis of depression and self-hatred.
Comparing the flow of your life with those that are around you and measuring your achievements with their success is as absurd as it is foolish. Every creature in this existence is unique. Humans more so, for they have thought and free will to choose their path and make decisions in every step.
‘You become as you think’ is a famous expression of the power of thought and free will. It is reasonable and efficient to understand the boundaries of society and try to find your place in it, but these boundaries are thoughts expressed by other human beings, out of their own free will, and are no indication of universal truths.
You can go through the trial and find harmony with the society that you live in, but do not lose your independence in the process of fitting in.
Have the courage to be as creative as you can possibly get, and do not be afraid of going for the horizons that others have been too afraid to even approach. Your originality will be the deciding factor of your true identity in society, and not the identity that you borrow from other people in search of something that is in vain.
As people are all unique, so is the world around them and the opportunities that life has in store for them. How could you possibly compare yourself to someone who may be more successful than you without knowing the circumstances that he has been put in?
What about the opportunities? What about the trials and the errors?
Life does not treat everyone equally, but at the end of the day, it is up for you to decide what you want to do and who you want to become. This decision should be irrelevant to the people around you, for you are your own person, and you are living a unique life.
That uniqueness is your greatest gift.
Do not live out the rest of your days feeling like you should be like everybody else, or a particular person that you admire.
Make your own opportunities. Make your own decisions. Make your own identity. You are not a slave of this mediocre society, for you can rise above everyone else and become something entirely new.
This is the ultimate freedom. Freedom from expectations. Freedom from selfishness. Freedom from ego. Freedom from envy. Freedom from greed. It is only when you stop looking at yourself as a reflection of the successful people you know that you can find true success and achievement and light at the end of the road.
We are not the same, not even in the slightest. Your personality is your own, as is your success.
From now on, see your life as a unique opportunity that only YOU can experience.
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50, 80 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
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Thanks All of You!!!!