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There are situations we encounter as human beings that requires us to step back and assess the entirety of the occasion before we carry out actions we might regret at the moment or in the future. It is therefore a wise decision to avoid situations that can bring about physical harm or emotional distress. Hence, whenever we are faced with certain circumstances that cannot be avoided because the people involved are important to us, there are several ways to handle the situations rather than avoid them.
My personality hates involving in physical fights because they are dangerous and can cause bodily harm, which can be regrettable. When I experience situations that involve physical, mental zemotional threats, I try to avoid it because anything can happen. When it eventually happens, it either you are a victim of circumstances or you die in the process.
One time I experienced a fight where two students had a quarrel while in the school premises but because of the school rules and regulations, they decided to settle their issues after school hours. Back then in school, it was a common practice to settle scores amongst students and this was against the law. Unfortunately these students met outside school premises and started fighting, it was so intense that the people or the Samaritans who tried to save them got hurt in the process. While the fighting was going on, a prefect of the school came in between them to separate them but in the course of doing this, they pushed him and he fell to the ground hitting his head on a chair. It was a scary moment because everyone thought he had died since his neck was broken but luckily for him, they rushed him to the school clinic and they were able to save him.
This is one of the reasons why I stay away from physical fight because I have noticed that the people involved in the fight do not get hurt as much as the people who tries to separate them. So when I try my best to make peace amongst them calmly and maturely but they refuse to accept the gesture, I leave them to do whatever pleases them and to face the consequences themselves.
In essence, fighting is not a good way to address issues rather it is okay to avoid physical threats then come back to settle the matter when everyone is calm and settled.
This is a part of my entry for the #aprilinleo prompt as organized by the @leogrowth team with great initiative that members of Hive you can participate in this prompt and tackle them as you deem fit. In collaboration with @emotionsandfeelings community
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