Hello, in my previous post I establish what attractiveness is and the wrong ways to try being attractive. In here, I will be discussing the you-should-do of attractiveness.
- Have a healthy Self-esteem: Being attractive begins with the value you place on your self. People will likely see you the way you see yourself. It has nothing to do with expensive cloths, but how valuable you consider yourself. It is seen in the things you settle for and the company you keep. People with good self esteem possess some level of confidence that makes them attractive. That is why, sometimes ugly people seem to outshine the beautiful ones attracting quality men and women into their lives. So, build on your self-esteem, read books, admire yourself the way you are and respect yourself.
- Maintain a Joyful Attitude: I don't know anyone who is sad, unhappy and angry to be attractive. People that appear attractive at first seeing are often the ones with a smile. And of course you know, you can't always fake a smile, it will fail you along the line and you will go back to your rumple nature. Be joyful, its not happiness, its simply having a positive outlook on life. This brings happiness from deep within you. I'm telling you, everyone wants to reckon with a joyous man or woman, cos' in their lives there is no dull moment.
Get a Purpose for your life: Far gone are the days when the only purpose a woman had was to Marry, and raise children, today, more is expected. Men and women alike are interested in a spouse that has a purpose that has a dream. Get a purpose, it gives you an attractive shine of a model. The people in your life will respect you for your dream and in effect will contribute to it, but if you are without a purpose you soon become boring. Don't just dream to marry, dream to build, ladies can also build houses and buy car.
Be more knowledgeable: There is definitely something attractive about people with some level of knowledge about everything. I'm not saying you should become an expert on everything, but I'm saying, know a little of everything. When a person sees your smile and walks up to you, this becomes handy, you will not find yourself lacking in the conversation. My advice, off the television, take up a book and read, watch creative programs, follow curent affairs. Just be updated. Ask questions and Observe
sourceMaintain yourself: Beauty without maintanance will soon avail but little. Same goes for handsomeness. This is where the need to keep your shirts as a man neat comes in. This where to make up neatly as a lady comes in. This things has a way of adding a level of attractiveness to you. Take care to service your self, from your hair to your nails. To maintain yourself, eat healthy-cut down on the quantity of what you eat and increase the quality, exercise, look goodgood, choose the right cloths, do some good hairstyle and smell good
I hope you found something worthy of your time here.
Also see: The Don'ts of Attractiveness 