cautiva-30

I think there are things that can change, but if they don't, maybe it's better to stop them once and for all. The most important thing would be to focus on my self-esteem in order to continue growing as a person.

For me, the secret is not to have a lot of designer clothes, but rather essential pieces and versatile colours that multiply the possibilities of combining what I have.

I believe that as a person I have the power and the right to define myself, without allowing the expectations or judgments of others to shape my essence.

I take the time to remember that, with my flaws and qualities, I am who I am. This year, I have wanted to focus on what makes me happy and healthy, to bring fulfilment and joy to my life.

One of the most recent activities that I enjoy doing every day is being part of those groups of people who interact and communicate through Discord. The power of a simple ‘good morning’ greeting may seem insignificant, but it can brighten someone's day and make them feel special.

Not being afraid of change, not settling for imposed routines, and giving myself the opportunity to prove to myself that I can perform any activity with the intensity that life deserves.

So I must let go of the pain, the despair, the tiredness, and all that keeps me from moving forward, so I can tell myself with faith in our creator that tomorrow will be another day.

Time is a great ally in achieving a sense of letting go of the burden of guilt and forgiving myself is truly healing.

I think that sometimes it is even sad to look at what we keep inside us as feelings of anger, desire for revenge, resentment, bitterness, when we know that it is our heart that is more valuable than a box of memories.

I believe that good and bad experiences are teaching stumbles and learning and changes occur throughout our lives.

Because I deserve the best, and the best is to accept and celebrate my ability to feel, it is a way to be totally free.

As a personal motivation exercise, if before I get angry and get carried away in talking about others, about what I dislike in them, I should first look at what it is that bothers me so much about that person, because maybe that is in me.

It is not healthy to live every day wanting to control everything, that doesn't make anyone happy. Almost everything has an end, and love can also have an expiry date.

I think it is never too late to examine ourselves and choose ourselves as a priority, to rethink things is a smart way and to do so in order to get what is worth having.

We consider our home to be the safest, warmest and most welcoming place in the world, regardless of whether it is ostentatious, middle-class or humble. So it is up to me to have my own garden, to connect with lush nature and together with it to believe and grow in my dreams.

Change is the manifestation of my capacity to grow and transform myself. When it happens within me, it allows me to share it with myself on a new level, because the only constant is change.

Thanks to the @holos-lotus community for giving value to everything that we as human beings are concerned about, a big hug to all friends!

Every struggle, every laugh, every tear, every achievement is a reflection of the fact that I do not submit, on the contrary, I always move forward with my faith in God.

Fortunately for us, we are not asked to live someone else's life. All we have to do is live our own life.

And I said to myself: That's who you are, a fighter, a survivor and a winner in life. Even with everything you have had against you, you are there, progressing, adapting, and getting stronger every day.